Kukulitsa zomwe mwakumana nazo ndi zikopa zathu zapamwamba za bdsm

M'dziko la kusanthula pakati pa mtima, zida zoyenera zimasinthiratu zomwe zimachitika modabwitsa. Kuyambitsa Chikopa Chachikopa cha BDSM, chopangidwa moyenera chomwe chimapangidwira kwa iwo omwe amayamikira zabwino m'moyo. Wopangidwa ndi zikopa zenizeni, izi sizimangokhala zokongola komanso zimatitsimikiziranso kulimba komanso kutonthoza. Kaya ndinu okonda kwambiri kapena ndinu a newbie canbie, bdsm yathu ndi yowonjezera bwino pa zomwe mwapereka, ndikukulolani kufufuza zikhumbo zanu molimba mtima komanso kalembedwe.

Pamtima pa mitima yathu yapamwamba ya BDSM ndikudzipereka kwa mtundu ndi luso. Chogulitsa chilichonse chimapangidwa mosamala kuti zitsimikizire kuti sizingowoneka zokongola, komanso zimagwiranso ntchito zosawoneka bwino. Chikopa chowona chomwe chimagwiritsidwa ntchito mu akapolo athu chimakhala chofewa, komabe champhamvu chokwanira kupirira zingwe zamasewera. Ntchito yathu ndikugwira ntchito ndi mitundu yomwe imayamikiridwa mwapadera, ndipo kukhazikitsidwa uku ndi kutanthauza za nzeruzi. Tikhulupirira kuti zinthu zilizonse, ndipo BDSM yathu imawonetsa kudzipereka kwathu popereka zinthu zomwe zimapangitsa kuti mudziwe zomwe mwakumana nazo pofuna kutonthozedwa.

Zomwe zimayambitsa matendawa amtundu wapamwamba kwambiri. Khadi ili limaphatikizaponso zofunikira zosiyanasiyana kuti zigwirizane ndi zokonda zosiyanasiyana. Kuchokera pamanja kumamisinkhu, chinthu chilichonse chimapangidwa kuti chizilimbitsa chikhulupiriro ndi kupezeredwa. Zosintha zosinthika onetsetsani kuti aliyense ali woyenera kwa aliyense, motero mutha kukhala ndi malingaliro anu osanyengerera. Ndi seti yathu, mutha kusintha mosavuta kuyambira kusewera mokulira kusewera kwambiri, wangwiro kwa maanja akuyang'ana zopukutira kwakanthawi.

Kuphatikiza pa kapangidwe kawo katha ka zinthu zakale komanso magwiridwe antchito, mabungwe athu apamwamba a mabatani amakoka zidutswa. Zojambula zapamwamba komanso kukongola kwachikopa chenicheni kumapangitsa kuti zomwe zikuchitika nazo, ndikupangitsa kuti si chida chosangalatsa, komanso ntchito zaluso. Mukamagula imodzi ya ukapolo wathu, simungogula chinthu; Mukukonzekera moyo womwe umakondwerera zaluso komanso kudzinenera. Zomwe timakumana nazo kwambiri pazachikopa katundu watiphunzitsa kuti zapamwamba zili mwatsatanetsatane, ndipo ndife onyadira kuti timapereka zikhulupiriro zomwe zimapangitsa izi.

Kukhutira kwa makasitomala kuli patsogolo pa ntchito yathu ndipo timagwira ntchito molimbika kuonetsetsa kuti kuyanjana kulikonse ndi mtundu wathu ndi wabwino. Timamvetsetsa kuti kufufuza BDSM kungakhale ulendo waumwini ndipo tili pano kuti akuthandizeni njira iliyonse. Makonda athu apamwamba a BDSM amapangidwira kuti akupatseni mphamvu kuti mulandire zokhumba zanu ndikufufuza zinthu zatsopano zosangalatsa. Ndi kudzipereka kwathu kwa abwino, zatsopano ndi chisamaliro cha makasitomala, mutha kukhala otsimikiza kuti mukugulitsa mwanzeru pamoyo wanu wapamtima. Kukweza zomwe mwakumana nazo ndi BDSM yathu yapamwamba kwambiri lero ndikupeza mphamvu yeniyeni ya zakuthupi ndi zaluso.