M’miyezi inayi yapitayo ku Tokyo, ndinapita ku hotela imeneyo pafupifupi tsiku lililonse, kukhala kuyambira m’maŵa mpaka usiku, koma osagona.Tsopano popeza ndikupanga kanema wokhudza hoteloyo, mwiniwake wandipatsa chipinda chapadera kuti miyezi ingapo ikubwerayi ndizitha kuona mmene hoteloyo ilili yachikondi. ndi kuitana bedi, ndipo nthawi zina sizinali zodabwitsa kuona mkazi akuyenda ndi mwamuna pa galu chingwe.
Kodi munalotapo kuti mwamangidwa kapena kumanga wokondedwa wanu kuchipinda?BDSM-yomwe imaphatikizapo ukapolo, chilango, ulamuliro ndi kugonjera, ndi sadomasochism-yakula kutchuka kwa zaka zambiri.Mtundu wotchuka waukapolo ndi shibari, womwe umadziwikanso kuti ukapolo wa chingwe cha ku Japan.
Shibari ndizochitika zauzimu.
Ngakhale zikhulupiliro zambiri, zari sizochitika zauzimu ku Japan.Izi ndizochitika kwa iwo omwe amasangalala ndi mitundu ina ya kink, monga ukapolo wachikopa, kukwapula, masewera ozunza, kulamulira ndi kugonjera, ndi zina.Chingwe cha ku Japan chikhoza kukhala masewera achiwerewere, kudziletsa nokha m'dziko lachisokonezo, kapena chirichonse chapakati.”
Shibari iyenera kukhala yovuta komanso yovuta.
Ngakhale kuti zingakhale zovuta, siziyenera kukhala.Simuyenera kuphunzira ndi kudziwa mitundu zovuta zomwe sizingakhale zathanzi kwa inu kapena thupi la mnzanu.Zomangira zina zofunika, kapena corset yosavuta, ndizosangalatsa.Pamapeto pake, ndi nkhani yosangalatsa yogawana, osati kuwopseza kapena kusangalala.
Shibari ndi zonse zokhudza kukhala wosangalala.
Pamwamba, shibari angawoneke ngati akuyang'ana pa kugonana kokha, koma sizinali choncho nthawi zonse.Malinga ndi mphunzitsi wovomerezeka wa zachiwerewere Denis Graveris, anthu osiyanasiyana ali ndi zifukwa zosiyanasiyana zochitira ukapolowu.Amanenanso kuti anthu nthawi zambiri amakhala ndi chidziwitso cha thupi panthawi ya shibari komanso pambuyo pake, koma sikuti zochitika zonse ziyenera kuphatikizapo chilakolako chogonana.Komabe, chifukwa chokhulupirira chokumana nachocho, mudzakhalabe ndi chinachake chapamtima ndi kumva kukhala pafupi ndi munthu winayo.
Shibari ndi achiwawa.
Ululu ukhoza kukhala chinthu cha shibari, koma sichiyenera kumva ngati kuzunzidwa, kapenanso kukhala chosasangalatsa, adatero Graveris.Izi ndi zokondweretsa inu, osati zowawa zanu.Kukhulupirirana ndi chinthu china chofunikira pakusewera "shibari" pakati pa inu ndi mnzanu.
Ubwino wa chai bari
1. Zimalimbikitsa ubwenzi.
Chinsinsi cha ukapolo ndi kusangalala kwa ukapolo zomwe anthu ambiri samalankhula ndikuti zimafuna kukhudzana kwambiri komanso kusinthana kwamalingaliro nthawi zonse.
2. Zosavuta kusintha, kusinthasintha kopanda malire.
Monga momwe zilili ndi zinthu zambiri m'moyo, palibe njira yofanana ndi shibari.Ndilosavuta kusintha, ndipo mukhoza kusintha ndikusintha kuti zigwirizane ndi mitundu yonse ya thupi, masewero olimbitsa thupi, ndi zochitika.Simukuyenera kukhala osinthika kuti musangalale ndi shibari, mumangofunika kumveketsa bwino zomwe zimagwira ntchito ndi zomwe sizili.
3. Ikhoza kukupatsani mlingo wathanzi wa endorphins.
Malinga ndi Grevelis, mukasankha kukumbatira zomwe zachitika, thupi lanu limakupatsirani mahomoni omva bwino monga endorphins, serotonin, ndi dopamine.Mukadziwa bwino njirazi, mukhoza kukankhira thupi lanu mpaka kukupatsani mapindu awa.
Kufufuza shibari ndi njira yabwino yobweretsera inu ndi mnzanu pafupi.Ndi njira yabwino yodziwira bwino thupi lanu, zomwe pamapeto pake zidzakusiyani kuti mukhale ndi mphamvu.Komabe, ndikofunikira kuchita kafukufuku wanu musanachite izi.
Komanso, musayese kutsanzira zomwe amajambula ndi akatswiri popanda kutenga njira zodzitetezera.Zoonadi: nthawi zonse sungani masewera anu otetezeka komanso modzipereka kwathunthu.
Nthawi yotumiza: Aug-04-2023
