Zikafika poyang'ana dziko lonse la BDSM, anthu ambiri nthawi zambiri amalankhula nkhaniyi mosamala, osadziwa choti ayembekezere. Chimodzi mwazinthu zosangalatsa kwambiri zomwe zingawonjezere zokhotakhotakhotakhota kwa ma advents anu omwe ali ndi vuto. Zovala zosangalatsa izi sizimangowonjezera lusolo komanso limatsegula chitseko cha kukondoweza komwe chingakweze kulumikizana pakati pa inu ndi mnzanu. Chifukwa chake, tiyeni timitsire padziko lonse lapansi pakamwa ndikuwona momwe angayeretse moyo wanu wachikondi!
Choyamba, tiyeni tifotokozere zomwe BDSM ili. Mosiyana ndi zikhulupiriro zodziwika bwino, sikuti kukwapula ndi zikwama zingapo zokha, komanso sizikuwoneka bwino mu kanema wowumba. Pachiyambi choyambirira, BDSM ikunena za kudalirika, kuvomereza, ndi kulankhulana pakati pa okwatirana. Ndi chochitika chachikondi chomwe chimalola maanja kuti adziwe zofuna zawo pamalo otetezeka komanso oyenera. Gag ya pakamwa - kamfumu yomwe imawonjezera gawo lachinsinsi ndi chisangalalo pazomwe mukukumana nazo. Tangoganizirani chisangalalo chopatsa chidwi, kuyembekezera zabwino zomwe zikubwera, ndipo kusewera komwe kungapangike mukamayambitsa ntchito yosangalatsayi mu kusakaniza.
Tsopano tiyeni tikambirane za gulu lokha. Chipangizo chokongolachi chidapangidwa kuti chitsegule pakamwa cha wovala, ndikupanga mawonekedwe apadera omwe angakuunitse chikhumbo chogonana. Mapangidwe a gag nthawi zambiri amakhala ndi bowo kuti asalole kuti malovu azituluka, zomwe zingayambitse malingaliro amisala komanso kusagwira mtima. Koma musawope! Sizachilendo; Ndi za kufufuza malire ndikukankhira malire mosangalatsa. Kukongoletsera komanso kusawoneka bwino komwe kumabwera chifukwa cha kunyowa kwa malovu kumatha kutembenukira kwambiri kwa maphwando onse awiri, ndikuwonjezera chisangalalo chowonjezera pa nthawi yosewerera. Kuphatikiza apo, momwe Gag amathandizira mnzanuyo kukhala nawo mwakufuna kwa seweroli sikumasangalatsa.
Inde, ndikofunikira kuganizira kugwiritsa ntchito zigawenga mosamala. Kulankhulana ndi chinsinsi cha malo aliwonse a BDSM, ndikukambirana malire, mawu otetezeka, ndi zikhumbo zisanachitike zonse ziwiri zimamasuka komanso kusangalala ndi zomwe zinachitika. Kumbukirani kuti cholinga ndikulimbikitsa chikondi choyanjana komanso kulumikizana, osati kupanga kusasangalala kapena mantha. Chifukwa chake, kaya ndiwe wokonda kubadwa kwa BDSM kapena watsopano wa Newbie, pogwiritsa ntchito zigawenga mu seweroli akhoza kukhala osangalatsa komanso kusewera njira yopezera zinthu zatsopano zokondwerera limodzi.
Mwachidule, zigawenga sizongoyambira chabe; Ndiwo chipata cholumikizira chakuzama komanso zotukuka zotukuka. Pokumbatirana ndi BDSM, inu ndi mnzanu mutha kupita paulendo wodzazidwa ndi kudalirika, kuwerengera, komanso, zosangalatsa zambiri. Ndiye bwanji osatenganso ndikuwonjezera gag ku gawo lanu loyankhulirana? Mutha kungopeza kuti imatsegulira dziko losangalala lomwe simunadziwepo!
Post Nthawi: Dec-04-2024
